Is Kinky Sex Better Sex?
Do you need to have kinky sex to keep your sex life fresh? Has your sex life become stale? Answering yes does not mean that you love your partner any less. Actually, it is very common. There are actually 5 stages a long-term relationship will go through, with the very first stage being the Romance Stage.
This is the stage that everyone remembers. It’s the stage when you first fell in love when your hormones were raging and you took the relationship from emotional to physical. The sex was new, it was passionate, it was amazing. Your love for each other continued growing and your relationship matured. Now here you are wondering what happened?
How did the sex and raw emotion that you once had for each other become so tame? Not that you don’t love each other, it’s actually the opposite, it’s just you don’t have those unplanned, completely out of breath moments that start the moment you lay eyes on each other.
The question now comes down to what can be done? You and your partner still have regular sex it’s just not like it used to be. It’s routine, you have your patterns and while both you and your partner say you are sexually satisfied, could there be more? Is there a way to add some spice back into your sex life? Could something be used or introduced to recreate that spark that once existed? Should we get kinky with our sex life? Is kinky better than boring?
Before you have visions of having a sex dungeon there are many levels of and definitions of kinky sex. Also, it is paramount that you remember introducing new “things” into your sex life must be a mutual agreement. Both you and your partner must agree to using them before being sprung with something in a place that is unexpected. We’re sure you understand how well that would go.
Increasing your level of kinkiness can be as simple as adding a product like Alura Lux to foreplay. This product helps to increase vaginal sensitivity and lubrication, increases the frequency and duration of orgasms and is water-based so it is safe with all contraceptives. With continued use, a woman’s libido is also increased.
In addition to adding Alura Lux to your sex life, there are ways to spice up, change up and rejuvenate a stale routine.
Dr. Aline Zoldbrod and Dr. Shoshana Bennett have put together 6 Kinky Ideas That Will Make Your Sex Life More Fun. As you read the article you will see how there are various levels of kinky. By discussing this with your partner you will find out what comfort level the two of you have and what you are willing to try. Not every idea will be right for you but do not discount them until you talk about them and possibly even try them.
Healthy sex life is a major part of all long-lasting romantic relationship. With all aspects of a relationship, it takes a conscious effort to keep the relationship fresh and in this case maybe even a little kinky.
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