It’s funny the reactions we get when we ask that question. For some, they smile and you can tell it was a great experience, for others, they need not speak as their eyes tell us it was more like a tongue-war then a kiss. Thankfully as we mature and gain more experience we’ve all learned the importance of a great French Kiss. It’s extremely personal, sensual and when done correctly takes foreplay and sex to all new levels.
For women, their lips are their number 1 erogenous zone so it is very important to send the right message when you kiss her. Kissing is more than just something you do that leads to sex, it also tells a tale of who you are. Kiss her like no one before and well, you can know where it may lead. But mess up the kiss and your time with her will be very short.
The skill of French Kissing is much more than knowing how to maneuver your tongue inside her mouth without hitting her tonsils. Rather, it involves the entire mouth – the lips, tongue, teeth and the rest of the body. So we have put together some tips for you to master the orgasmic French Kiss.
11 Tips for a Better French Kiss
It’s In Your Hands
While you are kissing her, hands play an important role in setting the tone and feel for the kiss. Holding her face gently but firmly while you kiss and holding the back of her neck all help to increase the intimacy of the kiss.
Also, pulling her hair back from the back roots or slightly squeezing the part of her body that is located right under her breasts (her ribs) could make for some very tantalizing kissing sessions.
Slight of Hand, Slip of the Tongue
Kissing your partner is one of the most important parts of a relationship; from everyday kisses to foreplay and sex, how you kiss your partner continually builds the emotional and physical bond. There are also ways to ensure your partner will want to continue kissing you.
As with most intimate behaviors, people will give out what they like to receive. When it comes to kissing, pay attention to how s kisses you as well as how they touch you while kissing. Do they bite you on the lips or try to gently suck all the saliva off your tongue? Paying attention to this will give you clear cut instruction on what they want to receive in return. After all, there is nothing in the world like the gift of reciprocity.
Tricks of the Trade
So what happens if your partner is not a great kisser, what should you do? If you find they are trying to suck the life out of your body or kissing too fast, too slow or without tongue, the first thing to do is relax. While some of this may be what they like, take inventory of what they are doing and then let them know what you like. This way there will be no hurt feelings in the mix, and you can see how they react to your likes and how it changes the kiss.
When you find the kiss is not going the way like or even planned it should, take control of the situation. Again the use of your hands will change the entire feeling of the kiss. Hold her face with your hands and kiss her as you’d like to be kissed. If the fact you are taking control of the kiss doesn’t turn her on, then you sensual tongue will surely do the trick.
Play a Game
Finding out what turns your partner on is always great, but sometimes asking what they like can put a bit of a damper on the mood. Instead of asking what she likes you can play a little game by switching roles. Tell her that kissing her gets you very excited; then suggest switching roles and ask her to kiss you the way you’ve been kissing her because you want to know what it feels like. This will let you experience what it’s like on the other end of what you’ve been doing plus, if she makes any variations to it, you will now know how to improve what you are doing.
Savor the Moment
There is almost nothing in this world that beats those long, slow, juicy and very enticing kisses. Your woman will definitely feel your passion through one of those prolonged succulent kissing moments. French kiss her hard and deep.
Improving a Great Kiss
You’ve taken the clues and discovered what both of you like to have in a French Kiss. You know from her body language what you are doing is working, but now you want to improve the kiss even more. Here are some experimental ways which will keep your kissing abilities and you on her mind all the time.
Suck on Her Tongue
There is more to a French Kiss than simply touching tongues. Change the sensations by sucking on her tongue. Turn your mouth into a soft suctioning apparatus on her tongue and suck on her tongue mimicking the way you would suck on her clitoris. She will most likely catch on quite quickly and can return the favor.
Trace Her Lips with Your Tongue
Get creative and trace her upper and lower lips in a slow, ticklish method. Once you have lubricated them adequately with your saliva, move your lips around her lips and let your saliva wet both of your outer mouths.
Focus on Her Lips
If licking her lips makes you antsy and quickly wanting more, then begin sucking on her lips — one at a time though, no one wants to feel as though they’ve stuck their mouth on an opened vacuum.
Be careful when you suck on her lips; don’t get too rough or you’ll end up giving her a hickey. There are very few if any women who like or would appreciate that.
Move Beyond Her Mouth
Don’t be shy, you’re not confined to kissing just her lips — there are a whole face and body to explore. Why not French kiss her chin, her neck, and her breasts? Or kiss her eyes, the spot behind her ears or her wrists.
You’d be surprised at the beneficial results that creativity can reap. All you really need is the willingness to try anything. If you’ve never been complimented on your kissing techniques before, now you’ll know the basics of being a professional kisser.
On the other hand, if, when you kiss a woman and then pull back, her eyes stay closed for just a moment longer, it usually means that she thoroughly enjoyed the kiss and there’s a good chance that you can further seduce her if you like.