We love helping couples become more connected, more passionate and more intimate with each other. We understand there is more to having great sex than simply the act of doing it. Romance, intimacy and a feeling of connectedness all contribute to the euphoric feeling you experience when being intimate with the one you love.
While having a great “quickie” can spice up your love life from time to time, the strengthening of your relationship and having amazing sex comes when you take the time to enjoy foreplay, sex and post-sex activities. One cornerstone of great romance is kissing. Improve your kissing and you will heat up your relationship.
Kissing is by far one of the most intimate activities we experience with our partners. The sensual sensations it provides is at the core of great foreplay and even better sex. With this in mind, we asked our readers to provide some of their best erotic kissing tips.
Through the thousands of emails we received, we have chosen these ten as some of the best. The creativity of the erotic kissing we saw opened our eyes to some great ideas and we will be sure to include them in other submissions for future posts, so be sure to come back often.
Have fun with these erotic kissing tips as we are sure you will find a kiss or two you haven’t tried before.
Erotic Kissing Tips for Better Sex
If she is laying down draw one of her arms above her head and lightly hold her hand. Start by kissing the soft area on the inside of her upper arm – from her elbow down to her chest. For variation, trail the tip of your tongue in a zigzag down this area. This absolutely drives my wife crazy! (submitted by Troy)
Kiss her gently near the clavicle (collar bone), then run your tongue in a zig-zag up to her ear very slowly. Give her earlobe a little nibble. It’s all in the neck guys… (submitted by Dave)
When you’re sitting close to your love, start out by softly stroking their face, slowly move your hand to their mouth then very lightly brush the lower lip with one of your fingers. If they seem to love this, then place the tip of that finger in their mouth. My boyfriend loves this, and sometimes he’ll start sucking my finger a bit. This leads to a great french kiss! (submitted by KC)
Gently kiss your partner on the neck, cheek, jaw, and slowly move closer to his/her lips. When you reach their lips, they will be all the more excited to kiss you! My boyfriend sometimes does this and it drives me crazy! (submitted by Christi)
Start by pouring a glass of wine. Take a few sips to get the taste in your mouth. When you lead him to bed, bring the wine with you. While kissing him, dip your finger in the wine. Trace his lips and mouth with your wine-soaked finger and lick the wine off slowly and gently. Take your time. Kissing can be very erotic. (submitted by Heather)
I play a kissing game with my wife. The object of the game is to make your partner try to kiss you. This could be done by lightly kissing her neck, breathing into her ear, kissing her cheeks, and lightly kissing her lips. Whoever lasts the longest wins! (submitted by Guntes)
Sensually whisper something a little bit naughty in their ear such as “I want you…” or make up your own. Let them feel your breath next to their ear, then kiss it and gently nibble it. Move down towards their neck and back up to their lips. This drives my husband crazy! (submitted by Gloria)
When kissing…try to catch his/her upper lip between your lips as you’re closing your mouth, and suck lightly before letting go. (submitted by Ryan)
When kissing really passionately, stroke the nape of his neck with your fingers. (submitted by Beth)
Think of why you like certain body parts of your love, or why you love to kiss those body parts. For each area, give them a quick kiss there, then whisper why you love that part. Move up and down their body sprinkling them with kisses and sweet words. (submitted by Nora)
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