With so much attention put on how to experience an orgasm, it is no wonder why some women never actually get the pleasure of experiencing one as they put too much pressure on themselves. Furthermore, there is confusion about what type of orgasm is better, a vaginal or clitoral orgasm.
Our thought is why choose? Have both at the same time, a form of blended orgasm, which is blissful of the combination of a vaginal and clitoral orgasm at the same time which will leave you feeling unbelievably satisfied and ready for more. We’ve asked our sexperts for their advice on how to blend orgasms and here is what they shared to reach total bliss.
15 Ways to Have More Clitoral Orgasms
First, on our list of how to have more clitoral orgasms, you need to focus in on your arousal. It’s key in preparing you not only for sex but also for how you are going to finish. During foreplay, you will want to get both your g-spot and your clitoris involved to get as many of your nerve endings in your genitals engaged as possible. This can be accomplished in many ways and the more textures, sizes, speeds and shapes you bring into play, the greater the sensations and arousal you will have. Have your partner alternate how they are arousing you with fingers, tongue, a vibrator or dildo and also vary the speed and style of strokes.
Focus on the Activities
Many women never experience an orgasm because their mind is too busy thinking about their day, or what they have to do tomorrow. When you are in the act of having sex, focus on it. Watch your partner as they stimulate you and focus on the sensations you are experiencing. Concentrating on and enjoying the sensations will push you closer to a combination of orgasm.
Natural vaginal lubrication is not always sufficient for foreplay and sex. The misconception of when a woman is aroused there is always ample lubrication is false. Lack of lubrication can prevent you from getting the most out of how your partner is stimulating you. Use of a product like Alura Lux not only provides the lubrication you need to get pushed over the climatic edge, it also further increases the sensitivity of the nerve endings in your clitoris and vagina. A simple touch of Alura Lux is all that is required for any woman to go from boring sex to orgasmic sex.
Take Your Time
Experiencing a vaginal orgasm takes longer than a clitoral one so you must take your time. A simple quickie will not provide you with enough stimulation. The longer foreplay and intercourse lasts, the more blood flow you will have coursing throughout your entire body. This furthers your arousal and continues to drive you towards the ultimate in orgasms.
No Bad Dogs Here
Having sex doggie-style is ideal for a woman to experience a blended orgasm. The angle this position puts a woman’s body in is prime for her g-spot to be stimulated during intercourse. You will need to experiment with exactly the right position – hands and knees, or lowered on your elbows. Once you get the right position, because your partner will not have to support their body weight, they can easily reach around and stimulate your clitoris at the same time.
The standard go-to position for sex is, of course, the missionary position. While there is no question this feels good, it can be made to feel great with a few simple tweaks. First, prop a pillow under your butt to make your g-spot more accessible. Then have your partner slide further up the bed too so they penetrate you there is a better chance they will be hitting your g-spot. From here you can then choose to stimulate your clitoris at the same time to further the pleasure.
It’s All in the Hips
While you are in the missionary position you can add a further twist. Instead of simply in-and-out, ask your partner to swivel their hips in a circle and rock back and forth while inside you. These types of motions will ensure your entire c-spot is also being stimulated furthering the pleasure and stimulation.
Ride Your Way to a Comb-O
You always have the option of putting yourself in control and there is no better way than by being on top. A great way to do this would be cowgirl on the couch. Have your partner lean back on the couch against the cushions while you sit on their lap. You can use their chest and shoulders for leverage and positioning. You can then also have your partner stimulate your clitoris while you control everything else.
While you are having spoon sex, increase your pleasure by crossing your top leg over your lower leg like scissors so your thighs will rub together. Spooning is a great position for stimulating your g-spot, and then the additional friction from your thighs rubbing together will further stimulate your clitoris.
Don’t Forget About Me
While you may be focusing on your clitoris and g-spot, don’t forget about other erogenous zones. They will and can play a major role in furthering your pleasure and pushing you closer to a combination of orgasm. Make sure your partner pays plenty of attention to your neck, ear lobes, nipples and anywhere else you like to be caressed and kissed.
Stay in Shape
Don’t worry you don’t have to run 3 miles before sex, this is much easier. The ability to squeeze your pelvic floor while having intercourse helps to enhance vaginal sensations. To stay in shape for this do Kegels and pelvic floor exercises.
Practice Make Perfect
You can’t direct your partner to stimulate you the way you need to be without first knowing what works best for you. For this going solo allows you to experiment with yourself what feels best. To do this you can use a dildo with a curved tip that will rub against your g-spot. Then with some Alura Lux, you can stimulate your clitoris to experience your solo combination O.
Another twist on the solo O would be to replace the dildo with a vibrator that stimulates your g-spot and clitoris at the same time.
Instead of simply lying down, use your toys in different positions just like you would while having sex. Try girl-on-top or doggie position, while stimulating your clitoris at the same time.
Extend Your Orgasm
As we mentioned earlier, a clitoral orgasm will happen faster than a vaginal one. You will need to extend your clitoral orgasm by riding the wave but not letting yourself fully climax until your g-spot catches up. To do this you may need your partner to ease off stimulation, slow down the pace, or simply take deep breaths to slow things down yourself.
We hope you enjoy these tips and experience the combination orgasm that will leave you coming back for more! As always we appreciate all your emails and comments. Don’t forget to share this wealth of knowledge with your friends using the buttons below.