For women, it can be a deal-breaker. For men it’s can be nerve-racking. Yet when done right it’s body tingling amazing. The power of a kiss can leave an impression that lasts a lifetime, and there is research to prove it.
From all the studies which have been conducted, similar results reinforce the importance of being a good kisser. Many couples report that their satisfaction with their relationship is proportional to the amount they kissed. A recent Psychology.com study found that 59 percent of men and 66 percent of women reported breaking things off with a prospective partner because of it. In the same study, couples remembered their first kiss more than when they lost their virginity.
Become a Better Kisser
While we do not want to increase your stress or anxiety about kissing your special someone, we want to help you. Even with the possibility of your relationship hanging in the balance, improving your kissing skills can be as easy as 1-2-3. We have put together three easy steps to help you become a better kisser to ensure you build your relationship not end it with a kiss.
Pay Attention to the Kiss
Even with your heart racing and your nerves on edge, you need to consciously focus and concentrate on every aspect of the kiss. Tune into the softness and warmth of their lips; feel your partner’s body against yours; listen to the almost inaudible moans. Making the conscious effort to do this will not only make you a more attentive kisser, but it will also take your mind off how well you are kissing. It will allow you to relax and immerse yourself in the signals your partner is sending you. This will allow you to be more natural and sensual with your kiss.
Change Things Up
There is much more to kissing than locking lips. As you are kissing, take moments when you break away from kissing to steal little moments of passion builders. As you stop a passionate kiss, stare deeply into your partner’s eyes before returning to your kiss. Change from kissing their lips to gently and lightly nibbling their bottom lip. You can even trace their lips ever so lightly with your tongue. Interjecting different sensations during kissing increases the pleasure by heightening the senses.
Touch with Sensuality
Kissing is as sensual as it is because of how sensitive our lips are, but that isn’t the only part of our body that reacts well to touch. Nothing makes a kiss sultrier than playfully exploring where your partner will feel the most pleasure. The obviously sexy areas are good, but it’s even more passion-inducing if you are creative and unexpected.
Gently run your fingers through their hair, hold onto it with a soft tug before letting go. Run your fingers over their scalp in a circular motion. If you are unsure of what feels best, practice in your own hair. You will find out how sexy this feels and why it will make you a better kisser. You can then move from caressing their scalp and hair to rubbing their back. Lightly let your hands travel up and down their spine. You can tie it all together by moving from their back to their cheek, chin and neck as you are kissing.
Make your kiss a passionate, sultry trademark and you will leave them yearning for more of the irresistible, sexy you.