Both you and your partner have your own set of go-to moves but what if those moves just don’t cut it? What if after all is said and done, sex was less than satisfying?
We understand the importance of making each and every time magical, but we also know that you don’t want to read endless tips and techniques and then spend hours setting up what you have learned. You want quick and efficient ways to increase the intensity and intimacy of your sex life. That is why we’ve listed these 8 ways you can make sex better in less than a minute. Enjoy!
8 Tips to Make Sex Better
Use a Pillow
We know passion can cause clothes to be ripped off and everything on the bed gets pushed to the floor. However seeing that you are reading this to make sex better, we’re thinking that isn’t happening, so, add a pillow to change things up. The use of a pillow changes the most common of positions just enough to alter penetration, which can make an orgasmic world of difference. While you are adding the pillow you can also add a touch of Alura Lux.
Set a Deadline
Remember as kids when our parents told us we couldn’t have something? It only made us want it that much more right? Use this same principle for sex. Set a deadline of 20 minutes or if you are really daring, an hour and for this set time you are not allowed to have sex. All you and your partner can do is have foreplay until the timer goes off. The delay in having sex will increase the desire and passion to new levels.
Having socks on is not for better traction in bed but it does help you enjoy sex more. Research shows that keeping your socks on during sex helps to regulate your body temperature. This, in turn, makes you more comfortable and allows you to orgasm easier. If you have a bedside drawer where you keep your sex items, through a pair of sex socks in to have ready at a moment’s notice.
Use a Tie
Being creative with new positions does not mean you have to be a gymnast or hang from the ceiling. Simply modifying your regular positions slightly can drastically change the sensations and pleasure. We already mentioned using a pillow, but you can also use a tie. Tie your partner’s hands behind their back, above their head, or even to the bed, or use it as a blindfold. Limiting mobility or vision forces your partner to relinquish control and makes every position feel brand new. It’s like a double shot of espresso in your morning coffee.
Use Your Toys
While not everyone has sex toys, if you do, the use of your vibrator with your partner again can take the ordinary to extraordinary. While you are having sex, use your vibrator externally to stimulate your clitoris. This can easily be done while in a missionary position and makes standard hum-drum missionary feel amazing. Don’t be afraid to use it in on your partner too, but just make sure to ask first.
Kiss While Having an Orgasm
When we orgasm our bodies sensory receptors are off the charts. Kissing by itself is extremely sensual and when you passionately kiss your partner while experiencing an orgasm, it combines them both for intensity like no other. The passion and emotional connection you feel kissing your partner during an orgasm allow them to further experience your orgasm, or you theirs and will leave you both breathless.
Edge Your Orgasm
Too often when couples start having sex their main focus is reaching the finish line; making each have an orgasm as quickly as possible and then get back to their day. Instead of being robotic about having sex, change it up. When you “edge” your orgasm, what you do is stop having sex right before the point of orgasm. You cool off and start up again. By forcing each other to hold off from your orgasms the eventual release is much more intense.
Change of Scenery
Last, on our list of how to make sex better, we are suggesting a change of scenery. We are not suggesting changing partners spice things up, simply do it outside of the bedroom, on the couch, the kitchen, in the shower. The change in scenery can make for a surprising rush and even add a bit of risk as there could be the possibility of someone seeing you. In addition, you may find that having sex on the couch allows you and your partner to position yourself in a way that isn’t possible on the bed which hits all the right spots for toe-curling orgasms!